TOWARDS SELF DEVELOPMENT

Dear Self, you’ve been going through a lot, but you won’t stop pressing. If there’s a key to personal development I had known, it’s in the power to deliberately, consciously, and passionately lookout for the better version of ourselves. Life is said never to be a bed of roses, truth, but giving up because of tough days won’t yield a glorious return, you could still have a rosy bed to sleep on. Smile, but that’s just the fact. “Choices make a difference,” Are you comfortable with where you are? By default, humans were created lazily. We love our comfort zones but growth never takes place in there. If we must grow, we must step out, grow, and glow. It is a new day, a new week, and the last day in August, carrying out personal evaluation how we’ve spent the past 8 months is needful. Ask yourself…. Have I been acting busy or I’ve been actively busy? Test how you’ve spent your time and money. Ask yourself the WHY question on your engagements. Visit your diary, see the things you had in mind...

  Many people are busy while others act busy. Are you busy or Acting busy?  On Relationship.  Listen, when you're actively busy, it's measured in productivity and accountability of time and resources. If you're forming busyness it's measured in time spent acting busy divided by Productivity and available resources. Which might eventually give us a deficit of time, effort, resources, and Productivity.  Many relationships have failed because partners failed in understanding the nature of work ( things you have to do ) and endless busyness.  Relationship building requires the commitment of both parties to its growth. You’ll always have a  long list of endless activities without being actively busy.  Evaluate the things you do.   Hello! There'll always be something to do, either actively or not. Starving your relationship by forming busyness will never do you any good but brings you harm.  Make a room for effective communication. Value peopl...