5 practical secrets to find love. 

The love of your life. Your soulmate. Your life partner. That special someone.

Whether we admit it or not, many of us are trying to find our perfect complement.

We wish to have someone by our side who loves us through our moments of imperfection and shares the memories of our lives with us.

We've seen enough movies about it, so it must be possible, right?

Love is not a fairy tale, so you can stop looking for a perfect "10" that meets all the qualifications on your wishlist.

It is possible, however, to find someone to stand by you, fight the world's confusion, and help you experience life to its fullest potential.

How do you define the basis for attracting that kind of love into your life? Here are 5 secrets to get you started:

1. Be authentic

“Originality always bear the test of time”

To find true love, you must first emphasize your true self.

If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first be willing to do it for someone else.

Be true to yourself, then you're ready for someone else's authenticity.

What really makes you happy? What do you really want from life? It's easy to get caught up in a pattern of pleasing others, and to do what seems popular or “normal” at the moment.

If you change your personality, passions, or purpose to please someone else, you are not being your true self. People are attracted to authenticity.

Know yourself, love yourself, and learn to act and speak authentically.

2. Be your best

Although opposites can attract, you must first understand that "like attracts like". You set the caliber for the individual you want to spend your life with.

You wouldn't look for a complaining and lethargic, greedy, petty, ketchup stain on your shirt, so identify ways to get in line first.

Do you want to spend your days with a healthy person who takes care of your body? So tie up your sneakers and go to the gym!

Do you want to surround yourself with a person who sees the best in people and situations? So stop complaining!

Do you want to find someone who strives to live each day with grace, joy, purpose, and integrity?

Did you get the idea …

Go and work on yourself!

3. Be confident

Be confident in yourself, in your decisions, and in your ability to attract love into your life.

If you are being your best self, that confidence will radiate from you in a glow of self-esteem. You will attract someone who recognizes, values ​​, and loves who you are.

People can see it, it’s what people can easily perceive. 

Promote that confidence knowing that you are whole and complete just being you. Understand that it is good to have a soul mate, but it is not mandatory.

Find your place of personal acceptance!

You alone are enough.

4. Be open

If your desire is to meet someone, then you must be willing to connect and open up to the people around you.

Free yourself! Be willing to connect with people with an open mind. 

If someone next to you in the office starts a conversation and calls you, be willing to get involved. Even if that person is not the love of your life, practice openness anyway.

Developing that open energy will help you facilitate iterations that can lead to long-lasting relationships.

5. Be happy

Perhaps the most important secret on this list is being happy. Everyone wants to be around happy people; happiness is magnetic.

So focus your energy on thinking and doing the things that make you happy.

Happiness is very essential to healthy living, don't tie your happiness to anything insignificant. Only God can keep your heart, mind, and soul together. 

Find refuge in his alms, and live happily. 

Your happiness as a single person is more essential because it tells of your happiness when you finally find love. 

Thank you!