TOWARDS SELF DEVELOPMENT

  5 practical secrets to find love.  The love of your life. Your soulmate. Your life partner. That special someone. Whether we admit it or not, many of us are trying t o find our perfect complement . We wish to have someone by our side who loves us through our moments of imperfection and shares the memories of our lives with us. We've seen enough movies about it, so it must be possible, right? Love is not a fairy tale, so you can stop looking for a perfect "10" that meets all the qualifications on your wishlist. It is possible, however, to find someone to stand by you, fight the world's confusion, and help you experience life to its fullest potential. How do you define the basis for attracting that kind of love into your life ? Here are 5 secrets to get you started: 1. Be authentic “Originality always bear the test of time” To find true love, you must first emphasize your true self. If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first b...

HEALTH IS WEALTH  It’s been a few days now that I have been down with malaria and cold, all thanks to God the speedy recovery and that’s why I can write you a post this morning. The importance of paying careful attention to one’s health status while busy doing the things we love reoccurred to me while I was down with malaria and I couldn’t share our daily insight on Wednesday. I realized that though I have a strong passion to always show up on your walls, page, and screen with short words of motivation for each day, a day can come with loads of insights to share but without the strength to share it. “When you’re not sound in health you become useless even with your God’s given potentials” I opined. So, after the speedy recovery granted by God, I decided to go on a long walk this morning. Ho, what a walk! Yes! It was such a great and refreshing experience. It was two hours of walking and listening to an audiobook by Napoleon Hill ‘THINK AND GROW RICH’ It was a great refreshi...

  FIVE THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN YOU ARE JEALOUS They say that the jealous person does not suffer from what they see, but from what they imagine. You may be skewing reality out of fear of losing your partner, and your jealousy may be unjustified. In that case, it is advisable to try to separate them as necessary. However, it is not always necessary to assume that jealousy must be taken away and forgotten. Sometimes jealousy works as a kind of alarm because they warn that something is not working well between you (routine, disinterest, fatigue ...) and precisely for that reason, a third person is sneaking into your space. Five things you should NOT do when you are jealous In this other case, it is necessary that you determine together the steps to follow, whenever you want to save the relationship. Whatever your situation, here are five things you shouldn't do when you're feeling jealous. Be careful, it is very easy to fall into them! 1. Do not accuse your partner Don't...

Dear Self, you’ve been going through a lot, but you won’t stop pressing. If there’s a key to personal development I had known, it’s in the power to deliberately, consciously, and passionately lookout for the better version of ourselves. Life is said never to be a bed of roses, truth, but giving up because of tough days won’t yield a glorious return, you could still have a rosy bed to sleep on. Smile, but that’s just the fact. “Choices make a difference,” Are you comfortable with where you are? By default, humans were created lazily. We love our comfort zones but growth never takes place in there. If we must grow, we must step out, grow, and glow. It is a new day, a new week, and the last day in August, carrying out personal evaluation how we’ve spent the past 8 months is needful. Ask yourself…. Have I been acting busy or I’ve been actively busy? Test how you’ve spent your time and money. Ask yourself the WHY question on your engagements. Visit your diary, see the things you had in mind...

  Many people are busy while others act busy. Are you busy or Acting busy?  On Relationship.  Listen, when you're actively busy, it's measured in productivity and accountability of time and resources. If you're forming busyness it's measured in time spent acting busy divided by Productivity and available resources. Which might eventually give us a deficit of time, effort, resources, and Productivity.  Many relationships have failed because partners failed in understanding the nature of work ( things you have to do ) and endless busyness.  Relationship building requires the commitment of both parties to its growth. You’ll always have a  long list of endless activities without being actively busy.  Evaluate the things you do.   Hello! There'll always be something to do, either actively or not. Starving your relationship by forming busyness will never do you any good but brings you harm.  Make a room for effective communication. Value peopl...

NURTURE! “Create time, brush up your skills, be consistent; only natured skills brings out the best in us” Be the next star to be celebrated! Everyone has in itself the tendency of rising beyond all odds and become a shinning star. But consistency makes the difference. To become an expert at what we do it requires determination, dedication, discipline, discovery and discomfort. “No lights shines unto brighter days without surviving the striving days” Cultivate a Habit of excellent, let it reflect in your doings daily. The cloud is quite wide enough to accommodate more stars that choose rising. Through the trail of history, consistency is one thing great enterprises, entrepreneurs and outstanding establishments have in common. It's like a catalyst. Becoming the best at what we do requires nurturing it, while the process requires consistency. You can be the next star to be celebrated, brush up your skills, work ethics requires more excellent mindset individuals to make exploit. You h...

Humans  wants  are  endless , while  needs  are  needed  for  survival .  Having endless lists of wants to satisfy will only make the available resources insufficient.  Not  because  it isn't but  because  we're obsessed with our  endless  list of  wants .   Endless   wants  can  be   result  of  jealousy  and  greed . Trying to live beyond our means is literally deadly and unwise.   Tame your  appetite ,  control  your  wants  and  concentrate  on your  needs . Your  list  of  wants  will keep rising daily, while your  list  of  needs  might be seasonal. Lean  to  adapt  to  changes  quickly as  you  can,  COVID'19  has  changed  the  world   we  live in and  we  won't return to that  life ...